Archive for August, 2008

My Blogging Coach

August - 27 - 2008
Posted by Val

I’ve been talking about coaching lately, so I thought this might be a good week to highlight some of my coaches. I’ve got several, each for different areas of my life. In this post, I’ll focus on my blogging coach, Yaro Starak, and why I believe he’s outstanding at what he does. If you read  [ Read More ]

What is coaching? I get asked this question pretty often, and I sometimes get stumped on exactly how to answer it, not because I don’t know what coaching is, but because coaching is so many things that I don’t know where to begin. So, I’m writing this article for my own benefit just as much  [ Read More ]

This morning I had a revelation: guilt is totally unnecessary. This, in spite of the fact that everyone I know has some measure of guilt about something. It’s completely unnecessary. There’s never a reason or cause to feel guilt, and by the time you finish reading this post you may think a little differently about  [ Read More ]

Affirmations

August - 21 - 2008
Posted by Val

Affirmations can be excellent for changing unwanted states of mind, especially when the unwanted state of mind is manifesting an undesirable condition. You can literally speak your way free of anything you don’t want. The magical power of words can, and should be used to your advantage, all day, every day. Here are affirmations in  [ Read More ]

How are you influencing the people around you? Each of us influences the people around us. Likewise, each of the people around us influences us. Understanding how we affect the people around us is vital to success and destiny living, just as it’s key to understand how the people you consistently associate with affect you.  [ Read More ]

My Intentions

August - 12 - 2008
Posted by Val

I promised last week that I would post my intentions, so here they are: My Guiding Intentions: there are 9 guiding intentions for my life: 1. It is my heartfelt intention to be love. 2. It is my heartfelt intention to experience and demonstrate my Oneness with Mother/Father God in all aspects of life. 3.  [ Read More ]

You are never alone

August - 11 - 2008
Posted by Val

This morning I read a quote in the book A Course in Miracles that I really loved. I thought I’d share it with you here: “God is my life. I have no life but His. I was mistaken when I thought I lived apart from God, a separate entity that moved in isolation, unattached, and  [ Read More ]

I was astounded the other day when I read Matthew 19:16-24 with fresh eyes. Here’s the passage (from the Good News Translation) and along with it, my fresh perspective, which appears in red: The story starts off when a rich young man comes up to Jesus with a question: “Teacher, what good thing must I  [ Read More ]

Stuff Management Process

August - 5 - 2008
Posted by Val

The other day I was conducting a coaching call with a client when it struck me that most people who have succeeded to a great degree have a Stuff Management Process. What’s that? To me, a Stuff Management Process (SMP) is a technical term for: 1. Learning what keeps me from moving forward (hereby known  [ Read More ]

Sitting before a coffin

August - 2 - 2008
Posted by Val

Today was the home going service for Alphonso, a dear friend’s husband. It was a beautiful service. What struck me most were the words used to describe Alphonso. I didn’t know him well, yet, by the time the service was concluded, I felt so much closer to this compassionate human being. Here’s what was said  [ Read More ]